Some things can't be fixed

Well, It has been months and months since this little drama began to unfold.
My nephew still lives with me, although my brother did take legal custody back he has made no effort to contact the chlid in any way.
Fed up, I served him with papers to change the existing order.

since our last courtdate he has had zero contact with his child, has refused consent for services that were part of my nephews referrals from his in depth asessmnent, and posted threats to his ex, the baby's mom.

Cancer or no cancer I have had it.

He and looney toons mom have posted my affidavits on line, threatened my children, irrevocably damaged my oldest sons emotional wellbeing with hateful facebook bullying, scammed welfare, tried to charge me with hacking and yet have not made a single motion to speak to or see my nephew.

The poor baby is 19 months old. He has seeen his father three times in march, once in august and other than that... nothing.
Not webcam, not phonecalls, nada zilch zero.

My lovely brother moans that cancer is the reason.
But playing WOW 40 hours a week is doable.
Texting gf 100+times per day is doable
mafia wars on fb is doable

phone call to see if your child is ok? apparently not.

I hear tell, from a source (hehe) that he IS doiong chemo thank goodness. I am gratefull, truly I am.

But not impressed that he had to nearly die, literally, before he figured out he had to go with REAL doctors.

Terribly hurt by his decisions concerning his child.

Some things can't be fixed.
He will not ever be able to fix this rift between he and I. My mother is a lost cause to me-I am greiving it while simultaneously feeling relieved at having come to such a conclusion at long last...

The family is divided.

The whole thing sucks.